
Last month I wrote about the biggest mistake you can make with your marketing, but a very recent experience showed me that there are a few other doozies as well.
Short personal story....
I mentioned I was going on vacation last week. Well, as I and my family walked into the Puerto Vallarta airport lounge in Mexico, we were directed to our prepaid transportation desk.
Being both polite and naive, I listened to the transportation desk attendant delivering an admittedly earnest and compelling sales pitch about special offers available to customers using their taxi service. I understood the offer to be for free tickets to some fun local attractions (that we were planning on doing) in exchange for having breakfast at another hotel the next morning, and being shown the property for possible future visits - it would be 90 minutes of our time in all.
I don't know what I was thinking - greed was probably a factor - but we said "yes" and duly showed up for our ride to the hotel at the appointed time the following morning.
Breakfast went well - we ate while a pleasant gentleman regaled us with the wonders of their timeshare program (why didn't I figure out earlier that this was a timeshare hustle?) My husband immediately cautioned him that we were not impulse buyers with big financial decisions, and the guy expressed his sympathetic understanding.
Time stretched on and the 90 minutes became two hours, and my 5-year old daughter grew impatient. "Only 5 more minutes" we were promised.
Not to belabor the story, at the two-and-a-half hour mark and under heavy pressure from the implacable salesman and his virulent female sidekick who kept sweetening the pot, my daughter was sobbing in frustration at being fobbed off with "5 more minutes", I felt both guilty and angry, and these sales people were impervious to our distress. They were demanding a decision that day. And now I was damned if I was going home without my "goodies" for all our trouble!
This is where the big mistake was made. Irrespective of how irresistible the offer had become, one fundamental error undid all its attraction. The sales people forgot who they were speaking to. They were so locked into their pitch that they ignored the humans at whom it was directed! They failed to see two angry, guilty parents on the other side of the table.
Effective marketing and selling - be it your medical practice services, your new whiz-bang tech tool or your consulting - are all about relationships, and connection.
Yes, you will need to practice and even perfect your "pitch", which may be about how to stay healthy or how to solve the XYZ problem your customers are experiencing. But when your pitch becomes a pedantic lecture, or an exercise in bullying, you will undermine all your effectiveness and persuasiveness. You will sever your precious connection with your audience.
One secret to getting all the business you want, that this vacation experience reminded me of, is to remember that people value feeling valued. Your sensitivity to their mood or situation will score big points - it shows you are truly paying attention!
PS: the second error, which you may have spotted, was the lie. The false expectation that we would spend only 90 minutes of our valuable vacation time exploring what was in fact an attractive future vacation offer. We were furious at being lied to about how much time this would really take. So, remember ..... no false promises either!
Here's another much more beautiful way to share a "better way to market" tip, thanks to this delightful short video sent yesterday by Robert Middleton.